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Ladies when you start to level up and start making life changes you will see that not everybody will be happy with every life change that you make to level up your life. You will start to see some people show their true colors. They may show how jealous they are that you have made changes to better your life. The truth is they can make the same changes too, but they don’t want to put in that kind of work that you have put in.
- Ladies remember we move in silence we don’t go around telling people what our next move is going to be! Why it’s so important for us to move in silence is because not everyone will be okay with the changes in your life some people will try to sabotage what you are trying to achieve. If they know you are trying to get a big promotion in your job they might go to your boss and start lies or bring up your past mistakes you have learned from. Another example is when start a new relationship and they try intervene to break you guys up. That is why it is important to move in silence. Because not everyone will cheer you on in your leveling up journey.
- Now another problem you will see in your leveling up journey is when you start to change now your old wardrobe from fast fashion to capsule wardrobe you will start getting back handed compliments. For example: wow look who is all dressed up? Or who are you trying to impress? Dressing nice should not be this big deal of a thing but too some people it is because they do not have the confidence in themselves; they want to make you feel bad for having confidence in yourself to put effort in your appearance.
- There also will be times when people will start to assume that wile you are in your leveling up journey that you now have a lot of money. You will be out for lunch with your friends and they can see how you are carrying yourself differently now, that one friend might be jealous and assume you now have a lot of money so she might tell the waiter that you have the bill and never checked with you to see if is okay! In situations like that it is important to keep calm and nicely tell them that you are not able to pay for everyone or for that one person; unless you can and you want to pay.
How you react to those situations shows how much class you have! As an elegant lady we want to be known for our class. That is why it’s so important to react carefully, because when you react with yelling and cursing that shows that you are of the lower class and not of the upper class.
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